I’m a feedback junky

Well, I’m finally back from a wonderful vacation back home in Indiana! It was a great trip, and hopefully I’ll get around to blogging about it before next year’s trip ;) For now, I’ve got about 100 emails to go through and about 45,000 images to edit. No big deal, should be done by the end of the day… ha! Maybe not.

I just wanted to post and let you all know I’m alive and back to work. And, I just had to share this sweet message I got from Shoshanna‘s mom…

“I’ve been meaning to write for the last week but I knew you were on vacation…I hope it was relaxing and fun. The photos are beautiful! I find myself looking at them every day and I always see something I haven’t noticed before. We are all very happy with them. You really captured the spirit of the day.”

Totally made my day!

Ok, now back to the Inbox… :)

Britt & Mike’s Wedding – SNEAK PEAK

I’m not quite finished editing the images from Britt & Mike’s fabulous wedding on Cape Cod, but I thought I’d share a couple from the day as a little appetizer :) They’re such a fabulous couple and I LOVED their wedding so much! Lots and lots more images to follow after vacation…

Could they be any happier??

Cape Cod Wedding

A few moments alone after the ceremony

Cape Cod Wedding

Um, this is my FAVORITE!

Cape Cod Wedding

They had an awesome bridal party, I’m glad they were willing to put up with some of my crazy ideas for portraits :)

Cape Cod Wedding

Britt & Mike – I can’t wait to show you the rest! As soon as I get back in town… :D

Out of The Office

Well, it’s that time of year again! Time for Guenin Family Annual Vacation!! Which means, I’m heading to Indiana for a couple weeks :) First up, I’m shooting my cousin’s wedding, then a week at home with my parents, a few portrait shoots while I’m in Indy, and then 3 lovely days in Cincinatti with my WHOLE FAMILY (see last year’s family photo below)! It should be a great trip!

Guenin Family

I won’t be answering emails or non-urgent phone calls while I’m gone. But, I’ve got a couple blog posts brewing for you so you don’t miss me too much ;)

Have a great couple of weeks, friends!!

Shoshana & Andy’s Wedding – Newton, MA

My first wedding of this year was the wedding of Shoshana & Andy. Not only was it the first, but it was also the biggest wedding of the year, and has been the most arduous to edit! I ended up with THREE second shooters, so there were 4 photographers covering the wedding, and we had over 6,000 images between us when the day was done! My interns and I have gone through the images at least 4 or 5 times, and we’ve finally got it down to a manageable size for sharing with the world. In case you’ve been wondering where I’ve been, that ought to explain it :)

This was my first Orthodox Jewish wedding as the primary photographer, and it was so much fun! The energy and excitement throughout the day was contagious, and the details and traditions were so meaningful and touching. I’m excited to share some of my favorites at last!

Shoshana’s father looking on as her veil is placed. She looked so beautiful :)

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Her necklace was gorgeous, and a family heirloom, I believe

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

The happy bride

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

I love these next two shots that Ben of Avenna Studios captured while photographing Andy getting ready and during the Tisch.

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

The Ketubah, hand-made by a member of the family

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Shoshana, her mother Teri, and Andy’s mother waiting for the guests to come greet them during the Kabbalat Panim. I love the excitement between Shoshana & Teri!

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

After the Tisch, the groom is escorted by family and friends, singing and dancing, to where the bride is waiting for him. I love the moment as the bride is blessed by the fathers. In this photo, Shoshana is being blessed by Andy’s father.

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

And this is the highlight of the Bedeken, the moment when Shoshana & Andy see each other for the first time and Andy lowers the veil over his bride. Vince from Avenna Studios caught this moment beautifully.

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

It’s such an emotional part of the day!

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

waiting for the ceremony to begin

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Giving her away

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

As Shoshana reached the chuppah, she circled Andy seven times

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Andy placing the ring on her finger. (Another great shot from Ben, who got the prime spot on the bema during the ceremony)

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

The sanctuary at Congregation Mishkan Tefila is so beautiful!

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Shortly after the cermony, we were able to take Shoshana & Andy outside for a few portraits. We were so lucky that the rain held off for us! (in case you’re not from around here, it’s been raining in Boston for like 6 weeks now…)

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

They’re totally cute together :)

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Vince captured this one, which I love

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Their rings were totally unique (but the same as each other’s). Andy’s grandfather made them! Such a talented family!!

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

And this is what it looked like during portraits… I’d normally have more of the other photographers inside capturing the cocktail hour, but Shoshana’s mother really wanted to make sure we got plenty of portraits of the two of them together. Apparently Teri’s photographer forgot to get a single portrait of Shoshana’s parents together on the day of their wedding. Can you imagine?!

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

We took a few inside the lovely sanctuary as well. The light was just so nice, and the stained glass so interesting and colorful!

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Once we were done with portraits, the party really began! One of my favorite things about Orthodox weddings is that they REALLY know how to celebrate! Nobody else dances with so much enthusiasm and energy :) I love this shot Vince caught during the Horah.

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Shoshana up in the chair

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Gorgeous flowers by Sarah’s Garden

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

During some parts of the reception, friends and family perform for the Bride & Groom. These ladies were dancing maniacs!

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Shoshana’s sisters tap danced for them

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Andy singing for his bride

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Cynthia captured this embrace after the song was finished. I love the faces of the guests cheering for them :)

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Shoshana & Andy, thank you so much for having us as part of your day! We had a fabulous time, as you and your guests clearly did as well. Congratulations to you both! I hope you’re getting settled and enjoying some better weather down there in Atlanta. I look forward to working with you on your album after you’ve had some time to look through all the photos! :)

If you’d like to see more of my favorites, check out the album on my Facebook Page :)

Many thanks to all of the fabulous vendors who worked on this wedding…

Catering & Coordination – Andrew Wiener of Catering by Andrew
Flowers – Sarah Burkstein of Sarah’s Garden
Music – The Nafshenu Orchestra
Venue – Congregation Mishkan Tefilla
2nd Shooting – Cynthia Hauk

And a special thanks to Ben & Vince from Avenna Studios for all your help with the day! It was great working with you guys!

Orthodox Jewish Wedding

Meaghan & Steve’s Fishing Engagement Session – North Reading, MA

When I first moved out to Boston, my sister insisted that I had to be friends with this girl named Meaghan. Kyla told me how hilarious and awesome this Meaghan was, and she wasn’t kidding. She’s got this dry sense of humor, and is just the kind of person that you can’t help but like. Meaghan was part of my LIFEgroup at GENESIS for almost 3 years and has become a very dear friend. When she & Steve started dating, it didn’t take any of us very long to realize that they were perfect for each other. I’m not sure if I’ve ever met two people better suited for one another. And what’s even better is how ridiculously happy they are together!! I was totally pumped when they asked me to shoot their wedding because I couldn’t wait to capture that joy :)

When planning their eSession, I told them (as I tell all of my clients) that we should do something that’s very “them.” I try to make the Engagement Session like a snapshot of the couple in real life. My hope is to capture them doing things they like to do together, and just being themselves. For Meg & Steve, I knew that we had to go fishing! These two go fishing all the time, and I find that so fascinating since I haven’t fished in like 20 years :) Steve thought that was the best idea ever, so a couple weeks ago we grabbed their rods and headed out to the pond…

Fishing Engagement Session

Meaghan

Fishing Engagement Session

and Steve :)

Fishing Engagement Session

He had to show us his “big catch”

Fishing Engagement Session

Fishing Engagement Session

Fishing Engagement Session

Fishing Engagement Session

Honestly, this next photo says more about their relationship than I can express. The way they’re holding each other and still holding their own poles, the subtle smile on their lips as they kiss, every little detail speaks to who they are and what their life is like. I’m tearing up just looking at it – it’s just so THEM!

Fishing Engagement Session

After we caught a few fish, they let me take a few portraits in the nice warm light.

Fishing Engagement Session

Fishing Engagement Session

They’re so cute :)

Fishing Engagement Session

Meg & Steve, I love you guys! I’m so happy for you I could burst :D

It’s not all sunshine and roses

Sometimes I think this blog makes it seem like my life, and my clients’ lives are so perfect and wonderful. It’s probably because I mostly post about photo shoots – photo shoots of happy people in love. And that’s the part of my job that really makes me happy. That’s the part that makes the other parts worthwhile. And on the somewhat rare occasion I post about my life, I’m mostly posting things that were fun enough to take pictures. (I guess posting about my cat dying wasn’t very fun, but you get what I’m saying, right?)

Well, it’s not all sunshine and roses, and this past weekend was proof. I was scheduled to shoot 2 weddings this weekend and through different, and horrible circumstances outside my control, I wasn’t able to photograph either of them…

Last week, I came down with chicken pox. Now, I’ve had chicken pox TWICE already (lucky me, huh?), so this third time was very mild. But chicken pox is airborne and that’s not good for someone photographing other people’s weddings. Even though I felt fine, and the lesions were starting to heal already by Friday, there was still a chance I could spread the infection. So, on Friday morning the bride and groom and I finally made the decision that it would not be wise to take the risk by having me there.

Thank God for the Boston Photographers Guild! The BPG is a group of local wedding photographers who come together online and in person for support, encouragement, and community. Before I had even contacted my bride, I sent word on the BPG forum asking for help. And with just a couple hours’ notice, I had a great photographer to replace me at the wedding along with a fabulous second shooter and assistant!

I can’t tell you how hard it was to send another photographer to shoot one of my weddings in my place!! I knew she’d do a great job, but I also knew she wouldn’t take the same pictures I would. I’m a control freak and putting the event, my business & reputation in the hands of someone else, made me realize that I was totally not in control. Talk about humbling! I also knew I’d miss seeing it all come together. I’d miss meeting the families and seeing the couple enjoying their day. I realized just how much I enjoy getting to know my couples when I’m at their weddings! You just see such a different piece of people when you see them with their closest friends and family. And I love that. I was so sad that I couldn’t be there.

Thankfully, the bride & groom were incredibly gracious and understanding. They even called me from the airport before they left for their honeymoon to let me know how wonderful the day went, and that while they feel like everyone did a great job, they still missed having me there. It was so comforting to know that we did the right thing, and they it worked out well – but it was also really sweet to know that they missed having me there as much as I missed being there.

I wish I could say that that was all that went wrong this weekend, but that was just Friday…

By Sunday my chicken pox were all but gone, and I felt very confident that I was no longer contagious. Thanking God, I headed down to the Cape excited to shoot the wedding of two friends. I arrived just in time to find out that they had called off the wedding :( It was so incredibly sad, and my heart aches for both of them. Everyone agreed that it is better they call it off than to go through with it with doubts and end up unhappy or divorced. But, that doesn’t make it less painful or sad or awful.

My brother posted a blog the day before that turns out is unfortunately well timed. He wrote, “To my friend who is suffering right now – my prayer for you is not so much that you would have answers, but that you would see God. Despite the pain, confusion and hurt, my prayer is not for relief, but that you would see God with clarity. For I know if you can learn to see Him in the pain, you will never miss Him when there is peace. If you can see Him in the storm, you will never miss Him again in the calm. If you see Him, you will see a God who not only sees you, but you will see that He cares.” I pray that for these friends as well – that they would see the God who is their strength, their comfort, their refuge, and the One who loves them.

These last few days have been stressful, and sad. There have been lots of tears. But this is real life. Things happen. People get sick. Things don’t go according to plan. We have to rely on other people and let them help us. Sometimes we have to make decisions that hurt. And somehow, life goes on. And I think we’re stronger in the end because of it.

I hope that this is not only the first but also the LAST time I’ll have to miss a wedding I’m scheduled to photograph. And I pray that this is the last time one my weddings gets canceled. But, I am thankful that if that’s not the case, God has a plan for all these things.

Shoshana & Andy’s Engagement Session – Boston, MA

A couple of weeks ago, I photographed Shoshana & Andy’s engagement session. It was a dreary day and as I drove down to meet them, it started to rain. I was afraid we’d have to do the session inside, but it turns out Shoshana & Andy were totally up for shooting in the rain! So, I put a plastic bag over my camera and we drove over to the Arnold Arboretum. Lucky for us, right as we pulled up it stopped raining and the sun came through the clouds. It was perfect timing!

Big trees, tiny little people :]

Arboretum Engagement Session

I love a playful couple

Arboretum Engagement Session

These two laugh, a lot

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

sweet

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

We found this very cool tree, and I had to put them in it!

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

They were troopers and went down into the swampy field for me. I was very glad I wore my sneakers this time!

Arboretum Engagement Session

How awesome is it that Shoshana’s yellow shirt matched the flowers perfectly?!

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

Butterfly kisses

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

Amidst all the fun laughing shots, I really liked this quiet, subdued photo the best.

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

After we’d had our fill of trees and flowering fields, we headed over to JP Licks and filled up on some DELICIOUS ice cream! And just in time too, it started raining almost as soon as we got inside.

I realized as I was editing this that I’d shot yet another cow. Not sure what’s up with all the cows lately…

Arboretum Engagement Session

The hardest part is choosing a flavor!

Arboretum Engagement Session

It’s always nice to share :)

Arboretum Engagement Session

Arboretum Engagement Session

A perfect end to a fun afternoon

Arboretum Engagement Session

Shoshana & Andy – we had a great time hanging out with you two! I’m still amazed at our luck with the weather :) Thanks again for the yummy ice cream! Photos from the wedding will be coming soon…

Alli & Glenn’s eSession – Woodstock, CT

Alli & Glenn live in New York City, we met in Boston, their wedding will be in Newport, and we shot their engagement session in Woodstock, CT! Talk about a New England wedding, this one includes almost all of it!

Woodstock is such a cute town and there were so many options for their engagement photos. Unfortunately it was spitting rain through the whole shoot, but Alli & Glenn were good sports and didn’t mind getting a little wet :) We started out at Glenn’s parents’ home where they have some beautiful blossoming trees. (btw, this photo totally reminds me of my friend Amanda‘s logo!)

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

I love barns! I’m so glad they hadn’t painted this one yet.

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

After a little while at the house, we hopped in the car to see what we would find. Alli thought of this great little wooded area, and it turned out to be fabulous! Plus, it sheltered us from the rain.

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

They’re cute :]

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

I just love Alli’s gorgeous green eyes!

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

It was right about this point that I almost fell on my face running through the woods in my Birkenstocks so I could lay on the ground and get these shots. Mental note: don’t wear birks on engagement shoots anymore…

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

This is one of my favorites from the day!

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Hey, look, we found another barn!

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

I saved the best for last… We stumbled across a field full of cows hanging out beside the road, and we just couldn’t resist taking a few photos with them. I mean, what’s an engagement session for a NYC couple without some cows and a farm?! ;)

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

I love how the cows were posing for the camera!

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

This one really wanted to be in the picture

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

It was definitely was one of the most entertaining eSessions I’ve ever shot!

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn's Engagement Session

Alli & Glenn, thanks for a great shoot! I don’t have many couples who would be up for having their engagement photos taken with cows, so thanks for being adventurous with me :) I’m totally excited for your Newport wedding in, woah, less than a month!

Elizabeth & Ryan’s eSession – Marion, MA

Elizabeth called me months ago about her wedding to Ryan this June. She lives in Chicago, which means I liked her right away ;), but we never got a chance to meet until a couple weeks ago at their engagement session down in Marion, MA near Buzzards Bay. We met up at the home where the wedding will be, and it’s such a gorgeous location – I am so excited for the wedding day! Elizabeth was just as pleasant to be around as she seemed on the phone, and Ryan is definitely her perfect match. It was very fun to finally meet them and we had a great time together taking photographs all over the property!

Ryan & Elizabeth

Ryan & Elizabeth

These two have such a great dynamic – they’re so fun and playful, they clearly love being around each other!

Ryan & Elizabeth

Ryan & Elizabeth

They’re also gorgeous!

Ryan & Elizabeth

Ryan & Elizabeth

Elizabeth is the kind of woman who greets you with a firm handshake and leaves you with a strong hug. She laughs HARD, with her whole body! You’ve got to love a woman like that!

Ryan & Elizabeth

Ryan & Elizabeth

It was totally worth walking through the mud to get these!

Ryan & Elizabeth

Ryan & Elizabeth

Ryan & Elizabeth

I have really learned to love shooting into the sun!

Ryan & Elizabeth

Coolest thing about this image is something Cynthia pointed out to me while she was editing the shoot… Even with all the light coming through, you can see Elizabeth’s eyelashes. I love little details like that!

Ryan & Elizabeth

Just trying something different with the edit on this one… what do you think?

Ryan & Elizabeth

This is what this scene looked like from the other side

Ryan & Elizabeth

Ryan & Elizabeth

love it!

Ryan & Elizabeth

We walked through this little archway into the neighbors’ yard from some images with a totally different feel.

Ryan & Elizabeth

Ryan & Elizabeth

there’s that laugh again!

Ryan & Elizabeth

Elizabeth & Ryan, it was SO great to finally meet you! I had such a great time getting to know you both. I can’t wait for your wedding – it’s going to be beautiful and so much fun!

If you’d like to see a few more of my favorites, you can check them out on my Facebook Fan Page :)